{"id":1550,"date":"2014-06-05T21:29:44","date_gmt":"2014-06-06T01:29:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sissyfinishingschool.com\/?p=1550"},"modified":"2026-08-04T21:46:32","modified_gmt":"2026-08-05T01:46:32","slug":"right-sissy-phone-sex-mistress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sissyfinishingschool.com\/?p=1550","title":{"rendered":"When I am Not the Right Sissy Phone Sex Mistress for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sissyfinishingschool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/find-the-right-phone-sex-mistress-855-7-ASISSY-e1402006646379.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1551 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/sissyfinishingschool.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/find-the-right-phone-sex-mistress-855-7-ASISSY-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Find the right sissy phone sex mistress-855-7-ASISSY\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a>Now that I have a little more time to call my own, I wanted to cover some ways you can tell if I am not the right sissy phone sex Mistress for you.\u00a0 In the year since we opened the virtual doors of Sissy Finishing School, I&#8217;ve garnered some really fantastic clients.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve also been approached by an equal amount that were not a good fit for me.\u00a0 If you&#8217;ve not contacted me yet, and you are wondering if I would be the right sissy phone sex Mistress for you, read on.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 In no particular order&#8230;<\/p>\n<h4>You Block Your Number When You Call<\/h4>\n<p>I&#8217;ve recently changed the settings on my phone system to not allow blocked numbers to ring through.\u00a0 To call me from a blocked number is illogical.\u00a0 You&#8217;re going to give me your credit card information, but not your phone number?\u00a0 That doesn&#8217;t make sense.\u00a0 Additionally, my billing platform requires me to enter it when I bill you.\u00a0\u00a0 So I&#8217;ve decided to save time, and disallow that practice.\u00a0 That said, if you are a regular caller, and you have some pressing reason to block your number for a few calls, then let me know in advance, and we&#8217;ll work it out.\u00a0 But otherwise&#8230;.no.<\/p>\n<h4>You Need to Call Late at Night<\/h4>\n<p>I&#8217;m currently on a very early morning schedule. That will change slightly in late summer, but there is no time in the foreseeable future that I will be taking late night calls. I know that isn&#8217;t convenient for PST callers. If we can&#8217;t work something out that allows for a weekend call, then I&#8217;m not the right sissy phone sex Mistress for you. We might have had wonderful sessions, but the timing just isn&#8217;t good.<\/p>\n<h4>You Want to Haggle<\/h4>\n<p>I understand that everyone should pay attention as to how they are spending money, and I understand that the value that I place on my time is higher than what others have chosen to put on theirs..\u00a0 However, this is not &#8220;Let&#8217;s Make a Deal&#8221;.\u00a0 I provide a premium service to those that understand the value of what I bring to the table and who can afford it.\u00a0 If that is more than your circumstances allow, or than you are willing to spend,\u00a0 there is a vast plethora of ladies to chose from that are better suited to you than I am.\u00a0 I am sure one of them will be a great match for you!<\/p>\n<h4>You Like to Play the Field&#8230;A Lot<\/h4>\n<p>Boys will be boys, and gurls will be gurls, and I certainly do not expect that every client that sessions with me will session with me and only me. That said, I really like relationships, and the dynamics that can form when sexuality and selves are explored.\u00a0 To that end, I really prefer situations that have depth, and I find that is easier to achieve when efforts are focused.\u00a0 In most instances,\u00a0 it&#8217;s really not possible to serve more than one Mistress well.<\/p>\n<h4>Personality Mismatch<\/h4>\n<p>It happens. Sometimes people just don&#8217;t click. I do what I do because I love doing it. If I don&#8217;t feel like you and I are going to work, I will tell you. I want to love what I do, and I want you to love the experiences you have. If the magic is not there, it&#8217;s just not there. It doesn&#8217;t mean you aren&#8217;t a great sissy for someone else!<\/p>\n<h4>My Sissy Stable is Full<\/h4>\n<p>In spite of all the charms I possess, just like everyone else in the world, I get 24 hours to fill a day. If you&#8217;ve done your homework, (and you should have) you know that I have an encompassing vanilla career. I also have personal play time. And hobbies. And friends, family, appointments, etc. The end result of that is that I can only be a sissy phone sex Mistress to a finite number of sissies.<\/p>\n<h4>You are a High Maintenance Sissy<\/h4>\n<p>This is tied in to the above, and my personal style. I love brief emails that let me know that you are thinking of me. For regular clients, I enjoy giving out between-session assignments. I am fine with building anticipation leading up to sessions, looking at your pictures, etc.\u00a0 The connection with me does not begin and end with a call.<\/p>\n<p>However, I do not have time, nor am I otherwise inclined to deal with sissies who have me confused with being their own personal journal.\u00a0 They should start blogging instead.\u00a0 I am not a good sissy phone sex Mistress for someone who wants to send me reams and reams of information on a daily basis and expects me to read it, let alone reply.\u00a0 Respect my time.\u00a0\u00a0 I also do not do any type of instant messaging.\u00a0 The exception to that is VIP callers who can text me.<\/p>\n<h4>I May Make Recommendations<\/h4>\n<p>In some of the above instances, I may make recommendations as to who you might consider. It&#8217;s likely that one of my first recommendations would be my partner-in-crime, Ms Isabelle. If for some reason that isn&#8217;t workable, there are a select few other ladies that I may suggest you contact.\u00a0 Please do not ask for recommendations.\u00a0 If I feel one is appropriate and fitting, I will let you know.\u00a0 I want you to have fun with your sissy self, even if it is not with me!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now that I have a little more time to call my own, I wanted to cover some ways you can tell if I am not the right sissy phone sex Mistress for you.\u00a0 In the year since we opened the virtual doors of Sissy Finishing School, I&#8217;ve garnered some really fantastic clients.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve also been [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1551,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"close","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[376,377,378],"class_list":["post-1550","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-special-topics","tag-choosing-the-right-phone-sex-feminization-mistress","tag-how-to-know-if-you-have-the-right-mistress","tag-sissy-phone-sex-considerations"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.5 - 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