Category: Feminization

  • The Ties That Bind – Forming a Relationship with Your Mistress

    The Ties That Bind – Forming a Relationship with Your Mistress

    A Mistress for Sissy 855-727-4779Aren’t those adorable shoes? They belong to a feminized sissy that I play with.  For purposes of this post, we’ll call her JA.

    JA loves surrounding herself with things that emphasize her feminized faggotry.  Things like these pink high-heeled shoes.  She is a true sissygirl at heart when it comes to shopping, and she regularly sends me pictures of new acquisitions.

    She and I have been in a relationship for roughly a year and a half.  It didn’t start off as one, of course.  There was some getting-to-know time involved to see if we were a good match.  But before long, JA came to the realization that I was indeed the person to guide her on her feminization journey, and she began to relax into that safe, perfumed, pink place that I create for her.  She began to share more, and, at my urging, she began to peel back the layers of herself for my examination. It hasn’t always been easy for her, but over time, JA has come to accept her destiny.  She knows that whether she is taking small, measured steps in these pink shoes and a tight skirt or whether she has on rugged boots that she is not a real man, and she never has been.  She is a self-proclaimed sissy fag, and at my direction, she has become more and more accepting of that truth. Instead of trying to hide from her destiny, she now embraces it.

    JA has more than a few things that make her fluttery, and the lace ups of these shoes represent one of them.  But those same laces also represent the ties that bind her to me.  She has made great progress in our time together, and she no longer journeys alone. She knows that because of the relationship that has formed between us…because she is committed to submitting to me… her tie to me simultaneously binds her, grounds her, tethers her, leads her back home, and sets her free

  • Calling All Sissy Divas

    Calling All Sissy Divas

    go-on-cam-for-ms-lily-855-7ASISSYIt’s been awhile since I handed out a group sissy assignment, and I’ve decided that this one should keep sissy divas busy, as well as amuse  me.

    Not long ago, I missed a connecting flight, and spent the downtime doing what most people do…watching transformational videos on YouTube.  I always enjoy watching boys turn into girls, and thankfully, the Internet offers a plethora of sissy divas putting it out there for all to see.

    After awhile, I got bored of that, and moved on to actual performances.  I skipped the “Frozen” video, as I am sick of that movie, and I’ve never seen it.   I was drawn like a moth to flame to watch Devana DeMille as Gwen Stefani, because I like Gwen.  Devana did a good job, and I spent some time clicking around her performances.  If there are other Gwen fans in the house, Trixie Mattel is fun to watch as well.

    The more that I surfed around, the more I felt that while I was seeing some good acts, that I wasn’t seeing true sissy divas in action.  That was until I found this video, and that was my inspiration for your assignment.

    Sissy Divas – Time to Walk that Sissy Walk

    I decided that with all the eager-to-please sissy divas that I know that I should be able to watch shows that are tailored to my preference. That is, of course, where you come in.  It’s time to put on your heels, start singing into the handle of your hair brush, turn on the cam, and entertain me.

    You’ll need to pick from one of the following songs.

    Since we’ve already talked about her –  Hollaback Girl – Gwen Stefani

    Telephone – Lady Gaga ft Beyonce

    Roar – Katy Perry

    What’s Love Got to Do With It – Tina Turner

    Express Yourself – Madonna

    Run the World (Girls) – Beyonce

    You can also go to the source of my delight, and do “Sissy That Walk”.

    While the actual task is to convincingly lip sync the song, you will get extra points for getting any dance moves right.  So get busy, sissy divas, and get your groove on!

  • Sissy Gynecologist Exam

    Sissy Gynecologist Exam

    sissy gynecologist examIt’s a right of passage for young ladies, and sissies are no exception; you must get a sissy gynecologist exam.  Luckily for you, I enjoy poking, prodding and exploring you, especially when you are in a vulnerable state.  That means that I most likely won’t be sending you out to an actual gynecologist.

    Most Likely.  One can never safely discount that possibility.  But for today, let’s talk about the fun that I’ll be having while I examine you.

    Preparing for Your Sissy Gynecologist Exam

    Preparing for your trip to see me for a sissy gyno exam is really no different than the preparations that you should make any time you will be spending time with me. Your personal hygiene should be impeccable, and your mental state should be that in which my pleasure is your utmost concern.

    What To Expect

    Silly sissy. Did you really think that I was going to tell you *exactly* what to expect?  How is that fun for me? I prefer to keep you guessing.  However, I can tell you that sissies with a CFNM (or CFNSissy, in your case) fetish will be happy.  You’ll disrobe, and slide into a paper gown that will seem two sizes too small.  Eventually, that will be removed.  To get in the spirit of things, I might don a latex nurses uniform, or a crisp, short white lab coat with very high heels.

    Once my office door closes, every inch of you will be inspected.  The aforementioned sissy gynecologist exam will be conducted.  A wide variety of other tests and procedures may be ordered as well, depending on my mood.  I’ll consult my chart, and select from an array of possibilities all designed to please me. Your role will be to do exactly as you are told, and to keep your legs steady in the stirrups.

    One other thing…you’ll need to bring cash.  Your HMO won’t cover the things I’ll do to you.

  • Feminization Assignment – Creating the Smokey Eye Look

    Feminization Assignment – Creating the Smokey Eye Look

    Feminization Assignments from Sissy Finishing SchoolSome of the more popular feminization assignments at the Sissy Finishing School are those involving makeup tips.  You devour them like Godiva chocolates, all in your never ending quest to be as much like a real girl as possible.  To that end, today’s feminization assignment should keep you busy until I’m taking calls again.  You can perfect the technique, then send me pictures or give me a cam show to demonstrate how hard you’ve tried, and how much you want to please me.

    Slutty and Sophisticated Makeup for Sissies

    The smokey eye is such a multi-purpose look that you simply must have it in your arsenal of tools. It allows you to not only look like a pure slut when so ordered, but does double duty and can be sophisticated as well.  And how do you go about creating this feminization masterpiece?  As with so many things in life, having the proper foundation is key, and we’re going to start that off by using primer.  Too Faced Shadow Insurance is a good one.

    You’ll also need eyeliner.  If you are in the beginning stages of your feminization makeup exploration, I recommend pencil over liquid.  You’ll make mistakes, and pencil is far easier to deal with.   It’s also best for smudging, which is a key component to this look.  For the sillier sissies amongst us, you’ll also need eye shadow.  Though many associate “smokey” with black, that need not be the case.  Your dark shade can be a jewel tone deep purple, forest green, or any color you want to experiment with.

    You’ll also need your mascara on hand, preferably a lash curler.  Having some Qtips is a good idea as well.  I strongly recommend using brushes instead of those hideous little sponge applicators that come with drugstore makeup.  If you are serious about your feminization makeup, you’ll eventually want to invest in a set of quality brushes.  For now, make do with what you have.

    Practice Makes Perfect

    You may not get the look you are going for the first time or the thirtieth. What’s important is that you remember that you are making me happy by trying. The smoeky look is a great one, because it is not precise. It combining and blending until you have careless elegance. Which is something that all feminized girls should strive for!

    Watch this video, and practice.

    When you have it right, it will be time to pick up the phone, and tell me your favorite part of the assignment. Aside from pleasing me, of course. That’s a given.

  • Naughty and Nice Feminization Phone Sex

    Naughty and Nice Feminization Phone Sex

    Naughty and Nice Feminzation Phone SexSince this will be the last time I post before Christmas, I thought it was time to check in and see who was on the list for naughty and nice feminization phone sex.  There are a few rare sissies that can be on both lists.  However, most of you will either need nice, soft, sensuous-yet-controlling feminization phone sex, or you will need naughty, strict, stern, and no fucking around feminization phone sex.

    Luckily for all of you, no matter what your kink, Ms Isabelle and I have it covered.  We *are* your Christmas gifts.

    Nice Feminization Phone Sex

    All true gurls who love having a woman gently dominate them, or provide guidance on their transformation journeys will love sensual sissy phone sex at the Sissy Finishing School.  Ms. Isabelle and I are Natural Born Cock Teasers.  What that means, my little strumpets, is that we know how to croon and cajole and have you quivering in your lacy panties that are ever-so-damp in front.  We know how to make you beg for more, and how to become irresistible sirens that you need to return to time and time again.  You’ll love the way that we wrap you around our well-manicured pinkies, and you’ll find that you become very devoted to us and our pleasure.

    Naughty Feminization Phone Sex

    Naughty feminization phone sex junkies have a special place in my heart. It’s not that I love you more than your sensual-loving counterparts. No, it’s not that at all.  It’s just that fucking with you gives me a different type of pleasure.  I love using your mind, body and soul as a canvas to paint my sadistic art on.  That sadism can take many forms, ranging from simple denial to smiling down at you while the heel of my red patent leather boots sinks into your pathetic sissy sack.  Ms Isabelle and I have shared more than a few of you, and that is also another thing that is fun…when you have not one, but two highly skilled, very wicked women in cahoots, tormenting you at will.

    It puts a smile on my face just to think about it!

    So whether you like your feminization phone sex to be naughty or nice, you’ve found what you are looking for.

    Surrender to our power.

  • Feminization Assignment – Sitting Down To Pee

    Feminization Assignment – Sitting Down To Pee

    Feminization Assignments from Ms LilyFeminization assignments can be such fun.  While I enjoy a variety of them, I must confess that the ones that have a liberal amount of  humiliation in them are among my favorites.  After all, sissy phone sex sluts like yourselves need to amuse me, and your humiliation amuses me a great deal.

    That said, I tend to *not* like, and therefore don’t give out, assignments that overly involve another unknowing party.  I believe in consensual play, and that includes phone sex feminization assignments.   So don’t expect that I will be sending you out to ask the counter girl at Macy’s which color of lipstick will enhance your lips as they stretch around a cock.  That’s just not going to happen.  Nor will you do such things on your own.  You are to be well behaved at all times, and understand that your behavior is a reflection not only on you, but on your training.  Which, in turn, is a reflection on me.  So it would behoove you to mind your manners.

    Small Feminization Assignments with Lasting Effects

    I tend to enjoy handing out feminization assignments that have a cumulative effect.  The death of your manhood…or what you believed to be your manhood…by a thousand tiny cuts appeals to me.  One of my favorite ways of doing that is your new assignment.  This is an assignment that you are expected to adhere to permanently.

    Going forward, you are not allowed to stand up and pee like a real man.  You now must sit with your pussy stick pointed downward between your legs when you urinate.  I don’t care if you are in the privacy of your home, or in the middle of a crowd of 100 males, that is what you will do.  Standing to pee is one of the things that outwardly differentiates males from females.  Removing that from you pleases me.  For most people, that means that 6 -7 times a day, that you will be reminded of what a feminized tool for me that you’ve become.

    It makes me smile just to think of it!

  • Sissy Facials

    Sissy Facials

    In our final installment of your assignment for getting smooth, feminine skin we will be discussing the importance of moisturizing and sissy facials. Moisturizing doesn’t have to be a complicated process, though I know that the skin care counters at your local department stores can be daunting.  Lucky you, you have me to be your guide!

    Getting Beautiful, Butter-Soft Skin

    The skin is the largest organ on the body, and for some of you tiny dick sissies, that is not saying much. However, since it is the largest, and the one exposed to environmental elements, you need to take good care of it to be properly feminized.  Your moisturizing assignment is a 4 week process.

    Week 1 –  This week you will go to the drugstore, and get a bottle of baby oil.  I prefer that you use baby oil with aloe vera and Vitamin E. ( Note:  “I prefer” is code for do as you are fucking told. )  You will keep the bottle in the shower.  After you are all nice and clean, you will squirt some baby oil into your hand, and rub it all over your body.  You will not put any on your face, and you will not touch your sissy stick with slick, soft hands.  Be careful!  It can make the tub slick.  Turn off the shower, and gently blot dry.

    Week 2 – Now we’ll ramp that up a bit. You are to go to the mall, Sephora, or whatever is near you. Order online, if nothing is close. No matter how you do it, you are to get a jar of Lancome Nutrix Royal Body Moisturizer.  Use it according to direction for one week.  Then call me to discuss the merits of both forms of body treatment.

    Week 3 – Time for a sissy facial!  And no, greedy wenches, I don’t mean the cum kind.  You haven’t earned that yet.  You are to follow any recipe for a homemade moisturizing facial mask found here.  Call me, tell me which recipe you used, why you chose it, and what you liked about it.

    Week 4 – In your youth, you may have sat and watched as your mother or some other woman moisturized her face.  This week, you will do the same thing.  You are to buy yourself a jar of  Perricone MD Face Finishing Moisturizer, and you are to send me a gift card to get my own jar.  You can use this type both morning and night, and as you sweep it over your face, I want you to not only focus on what it feels like, but the femininity of the gesture.  Arrange to give me a cam show of you doing it.  When you do so, I prefer that you have your hair up in a towel like the cute image that I picked out for this post.  And don’t forget what “I prefer” means!

  • Silky Sissy Skin

    Silky Sissy Skin

    Silky Sissy SkinMs Isabelle and I love when our feminized phone sex playthings know how to take direction, and you’ll earn extra credit by following these steps to get silky sissy skin.  As you’ll remember, last week we talked about ways to exfoliate your skin.  Today, our focus will be on hydration.   After all, you want to look your best when we have you tilt your face upward to receive a nice, warm cum facial!

    Hydration Tips to Achieve Flawless Silky Sissy Skin

    As some of the more astute students might have gathered, your path to silky, feminine skin is awash in plenty of water.  While you are probably familiar with the adage to drink 64 ounces a day, there is really not a one-size-fits all approach.  You need to consider your activity level,  weight, and environment.  Web MD advises to drink half an ounce to an ounce of water for every pound you weigh.  You will note that I said water, not fluids.  So sodas, Starbucks, RedBulls or appletinis do not count.  As a matter of fact, consider yourself banned from drinking those things.  You need to make sacrificies to be a good sissy, and the money is far better spent on Ms Isabelle and I.  Your health and skin will benefit, and so will we.

    You will also hydrate in another manner.  No, I am not referring to golden showers.  I am talking about your nutrition.  While moisturizing  from the outside is important…and that will be the topic of our final installment next week…moisturizing from the inside is more important.  This method offers a dual benefit.  Not only will your skin improve, but your waistline will thank you as well. 

    That means your diet will be built around foods like avacados, fish, spinach and other darky, leafy greens, eggs, orange and yellow veggies, extra virgin olive oil, nuts, seeds, fruit, and cucumbers.  Let your water do double duty, and infuse it with lemons or limes. 

    I love to micro-manage, so I would be delighted to work with you one on one on your diet and all aspect of your feminization.  Face it, you really need me to help pull you into a presentable, feminized package!

  • Get Smooth Feminized Skin

    Get Smooth Feminized Skin

    feminized skinNow that summer is gone, you may think that you can forgo your training and forget about maintaining your feminized skin. Nothing could be further from the truth! Winter is nasty and harsh on our skin.  Not to mention the fact that time flies, and before you know it, you’ll want to be flouncing down the street in your micro minis.   So get busy, and make the most of this time so that you emerge in the Spring with buttery soft, feminized skin.

    Step 1 for Feminized Skin – Exfoliate

    Exfoliation is a method in which you remove dead skin cells.  There are a variety of ways that you can go about doing this, but all employ some manner of abrasion.  Obviously, you’ll want to use different products or methods on your face than you do the rest of your body.

    If you want to be exactly like me…and why wouldn’t you…you’ll snag this palm fiber dry body brush. I use mine on a near-daily basis. If you’ve never done dry brushing before, there is a wealth of information about techniques, etc, online.  The most important tidbit I can pass along is to start off lightly, then apply more pressure as you get a better feel for what your skin can tolerate.  Note that this is not a soft, cuddly brush, and you want to exfoliate, not dig trenches in your skin.

    When I want to change things up, I make my own sugar scrub.  It’s easy, and will be a treat for those that love feminization assignments.  All you need is plain white sugar, a container to store it in, extra virgin olive oil (a good amount) and some essential oils.  I have different jars to match different times of the day.  If it is night time, and I am taking a wind-down shower, I will use my scrub that I made with lavender.  If it is morning, and I want a wake-me-up, I will use one of my citrus scents.   As you mix this together, you want a fair amount of liquid.  I don’t measure my ingredients, so I can’t give you absolutes.  I can tell you that you want the oil covering the sugar so that when you scoop it out of the jar with your fingers that it is entirely saturated.  Warning…this is can make your tub very slippery, so be careful, and don’t break your sissy necks!

    This is a fun scrub to do because it moisturizes as well as exfoliates, and just plain smells good.  Next week we will be talking about Step 2, which is Hydrating.  In Week 3, our final week, we’ll discuss moisturizing for flawless feminized skin.

  • Feminization Hormone Therapy

    Feminization Hormone Therapy

    feminzation hormone therapy

    Sometimes girls will go deep enough into their journey that feminization hormone therapy is something that they begin to consider.  Despite what you might fantasize about, in reality, there are precautions that you really need to take, and things that you need to consider.  Though each situation is unique as the individual that is in it, there are some general things you need to know.

    What is WPATH and What Role Does It Play In Feminization Hormone Therapy?

    WPATH stands for World Professional Association for Transgender Health.  It used to be named HBIGDA, after Harry Benjamin, who was one of the first doctors ever to work with transgendered patients.  He was one of the doctors that worked with Christine Jorgensen,  who became the early face for transformation.

     

    WPATH is an international organization that has established Standards of Care.  Those Standards are primarily devoted to sexual reassignment surgery, hormone therapy, and real life experience.  They lay out  concise guidelines for transitions.  You may read through them and think that they are far too conservative.  Though I realize that when you finally decide to take that step you may wish to dive in head first, feminization hormone therapy is not something to undertake without doing your research.

    Finding a Doctor for Feminization Hormone Therapy

    If you are twitching in your Pour La Victoire pumps, ready to head for the nearest clinic, stop.  Most doctors will require that you first see a therapist that specializes in gender identity.  That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll have to go through intensive traditional therapy.  The intent is to make sure that you are comfortable with and aware of issues surrounding feminization hormone therapy.  It also gives you an opportunity to address any other issue you may have, gender related or not.

    Another important thing is having someone outside the therapeutic setting to talk things over with, and explore your feelings about.  Establishing relationships with understanding, empathetic genetic girls like Ms Isabelle and myself can be very beneficial relationships to form during your transition.  Though not doctors or traditional therapists, having us to talk to can be an invaluable source of comfort, knowledge, and just plain old girl talk fun!