Sissy Finishing School

Author: Ms Lily

Get Smooth Feminized Skin

Now that summer is gone, you may think that you can forgo your training and forget about maintaining your feminized skin. Nothing could be further from the truth! Winter is nasty and harsh on our skin. Not to mention the fact that time flies, and before you know it, you’ll want to be flouncing down the street in your micro minis. So get busy, and make the most of this time so that you emerge in the Spring with buttery soft, feminized skin.

Step 1 for Feminized Skin – Exfoliate

Exfoliation is a method in which you remove dead skin cells. There are a variety of ways that you can go about doing this, but all employ some manner of abrasion. Obviously, you’ll want to use different products or methods on your face than you do the rest of your body.

If you want to be exactly like me…and why wouldn’t you…you’ll snag this palm fiber dry body brush. I use mine on a near-daily basis. If you’ve never done dry brushing before, there is a wealth of information about techniques, etc, online. The most important tidbit I can pass along is to start off lightly, then apply more pressure as you get a better feel for what your skin can tolerate. Note that this is not a soft, cuddly brush, and you want to exfoliate, not dig trenches in your skin.

When I want to change things up, I make my own sugar scrub. It’s easy, and will be a treat for those that love feminization assignments. All you need is plain white sugar, a container to store it in, extra virgin olive oil (a good amount) and some essential oils. I have different jars to match different times of the day. If it is night time, and I am taking a wind-down shower, I will use my scrub that I made with lavender. If it is morning, and I want a wake-me-up, I will use one of my citrus scents. As you mix this together, you want a fair amount of liquid. I don’t measure my ingredients, so I can’t give you absolutes. I can tell you that you want the oil covering the sugar so that when you scoop it out of the jar with your fingers that it is entirely saturated. Warning…this is can make your tub very slippery, so be careful, and don’t break your sissy necks!

This is a fun scrub to do because it moisturizes as well as exfoliates, and just plain smells good. Next week we will be talking about Step 2, which is Hydrating. In Week 3, our final week, we’ll discuss moisturizing for flawless feminized skin.

November 14, 2013
When Sissies Purge

I always feel a little sad when sissies purge. I like to encourage self acceptance, and when sissies purge, it is the antithesis of self acceptance. On top of that, just think of all those lovely, feminine clothes going to waste! If anything is shameful, that is. So Ms. Isabelle and I have joined forces to stomp out sissy purging. And yes, we’ll be wearing stilettos as we do it.

Why Sissies Purge

Some locales are very accepting of gender issues, as evidenced by a third gender being officially recognized in many countries. Sadly, though advances have been made, the US is puritanical, and we still live under the dark umbrella of a mindset that deep at it’s roots believes that sex is bad. And if conventional, vanilla sex between a man and woman is bad, just think how society looks upon men who like to dress up or who strive to be as feminine as they possibly can.

In a word, sissies purge because of shame.

Stop Sissy Purging

If you find yourself considering a purge, I want you to visualize a stop sign, and take the following steps.

S – Surrender Accept your sissy self. You can throw clothing away, and you ditch your makeup. But you can’t change how you are hard-wired. Baby, you were born this way.

T – Transcend When the Urge to Purge strikes, you are vulnerable, and any action that you take will be a reaction to those feelings of shame, not a conscious-thought out choice. Step outside of the current moment, note it, accept it, and remember that what you feel right in that moment is not a permanent feeling.

O – Oasis Everyone has an oasis, and when you feel like purging, it’s time to find yours. It may be an actual physical place, or it may just be a state of mind. But you need sanctuary from all the negative winds whipping through your mind like a violent tornado. Find your safe place, and practice self-care until the storm of emotion passes. Take action to protect yourself, and your pretty things, Rent a storage unit, hand them over to a trusted friend, or tell yourself that if you still feel the same way in a month that you’ll get rid of them then.

P- Phone When you feel like no one in the world understands, that is when you need Sissy Finishing School the most. The desire to purge puts you in a delicate emotional state, and you need the compassionate, empathetic guidance that we offer. So pick up the phone, and find solace.

November 7, 2013
Sissy Strapon Sex

Finally, my journey brings me home again, and I can relax from the demands of life. And nothing says home like making a feminized bitch get out my collection of cocks so that I could indulge in my favorite homecoming activity…sissy strapon sex. Fucking some strumpet in her cunthole is a nice tension reliever. Rather like Happy Hour, but without the hangover the next day.

I also enjoy the ritualistic preparation involved with sissy strapon sex. Sure, I could…and sometimes do…just take what I want, and call it a day. But I tend to get more gratification from drawing the anticipation out for several hours, until the sissy bitch in question shudders in delight from a caress to her neck. I like watching the way that the pupils dilate, jawline tightens a little with longing, and the nostrils flare slightly as my feminized fluffer tries valiantly to be a patient good girl who will eventually get the reward of my cock.

Good Things Come To Those That Wait for Sissy Strapon Sex…Maybe

As much as I truly enjoy reaming some harlot out, I also like denying them. It’s a great deal of fun to have a sissy on her knees, literally begging me to put my harness on, and to fuck any orifice of her needy body. I like making them earn it. After all, getting my cock is a privilege, and I don’t think it’s too much to ask that someone shows that they *really* want it.

And it’s not about the physical act. Not for me, not in the least. It’s the mind fuck of taking someone like you and totally dominating you as you lay with your legs in the air, squirming, desperately hoping that I’ll plunge into you, filling your sissycunt, sissy mind, and sissy soul in a way that only a truly dominant woman can do. It’s thrusting into your psyche with every stroke, branding you, claiming you, owning you.

If you can intice me to do it, that is. I might just have you get out my toys, then put them all away again, unused for the night. It’s on you to convince me that you want it. You think you’re up to the task?

November 1, 2013
Sissy Phone Sex

It’s time to call Sissy Finishing School!

I have a relatively straight friend that is always amazed by what can happen during sissy phone sex. Our first conversation about it started with an innocent question from her about a new pair of boots that I was wearing. She and I were going out for early drinks, and I had kinky fun planned for later in the evening. I was dressed conservatively for dungeon play, but a bit flashy for Happy Hour. But one look at what was my newest acquisition at the time…a pair of Pleaser’s that are similar to this…and she immediately wanted to know where I got them.

Sissy Phone Sex Provided Me with My Boots, and a Lot More!

I already knew that she embarrassed easily, and I was in a throw-caution-to-the-wind kind of mood. So I told her that “a cum lapping panty faggot” bought them for me. She almost choked on her drink!

After some sputtering on her part, I told her that I had unique tastes in several areas of my life, and that one of those was that I liked to amuse myself with sissies who call in for distance domination phone sex. To say that she was incredulous is an understatement! I then went on to reel off several gifts that I had received. I could see that she was still doubtful.

So I whipped out my phone, opened my email, and showed her a few pictures of various sissies doing things they’d been instructed to do, all the while pledging their devotion to me. Her eyes grew HUGE as she took in what she was seeing, and then the questions started pouring out. I attribute that to the liquid courage of the two drinks she had before I got there, because she is normally reserved.

Is Sissy Phone Sex Like Phone Sex for Real Men?

It wasn’t long before she asked what sissy phone sex really consisted of. Like most people that don’t live under a rock, she had an idea about what might take place when a real man wanted phone sex. But she was clueless about what a sissy might do.

In the end, she may have been sorry that she asked. I cancelled my plans for the evening, and she and I ended up going out for dinner. Over the meal, she listened as I told her of the things I’ve had preening sissies do, and how they’ve loved doing it, calling back for more and more. One thing she was clear on before the night was over, and that is that sissy phone sex is not at all like real man phone sex!

Since that night, she’s always curious about what I’ve been making sissy boys do, and I’m always willing to tell her. I’ve tried to get her to do calls with me, but she just shakes her head and says she’s happy to just listen to the stories.

And I”m happy not only to tell them to her, but that you provide me with such entertaining fodder to share.

October 11, 2013
Ass Worship Phone Sex

Look at my picture, and admit to yourself how much you want to have ass worship phone sex with me. Go ahead. Slide your eyes just to the left, and look at my tantalizing ass. If I do say so myself, it looks delectable in my morning work out clothes. I think that would be a fun way to make you start your morning. You’d have to kneel in panties, holding a towel for me, and watch as I stretched and pulled my body right in front of you…

lower back arched so that my ass is so very, very close to your face.

You know I am going to torment and tease you, sissy bitch. Your panties are going to get tighter and tighter, and you’ll feel a spot of dampness on the front of them. You’ll want to lower the towel so that I won’t know the effect that my luscious backside has on you, and that I won’t be able to tell how much you want to worship my ass.

Silly sissy. Of course I know.

That’s the fun of it.

I Know Exactly How Much You Want to Have Ass Worship Phone Sex with Me

I love taking that knowledge, and using it against you. I love making you salivate, your tongue quivering with desire. What will it be today, hmmm? Will I make you stretch out on your back, while I lower myself and hover out of reach? Will I lower further, smothering you with my orbs of glory, while you leak in your panties and inhale as deeply as you can, my scent permeating your very being?

Or will I s-l-o-w-l-y pull off my clothes, and then make you beg for it? Make you beg to put your sissy tongue against my flesh, and flick your eager tongue against me?

Which will it be, sissy?

October 4, 2013
Sissy Panty Liner Training

I like enforcing sissy panty liner training for a variety of reasons. First and foremost, I like to humiliate feminized gurls like you. I also know how often some of you are making messes in your pretty panties. That simply won’t do, so it’s time to remedy that.

First things first…you all do have panties, correct? I cannot fathom that you would have read the writings of Ms. Isabelle and myself this long and not have bought panties. But if you don’t have some, get them now. Consider that an assignment. If you are resistant to wearing panties, all the better. Don’t think that you will get to slide by with some utilitarian pair. I want you to buy something nice and feminine. I particularly like these Betsy Johnson panties, so getting those and giving me a cam show with you in them will earn you extra stars. Sending Ms. Isabelle and myself Amazon gifts cards to buy our own pairs will earn you even more stars.

Feminization Shopping Assignment

Alright, now that everyone has at least one pair of panties, it’s time to begin your sissy panty liner training. You are not going to skate by and order these online. No, you are going to to your local drugstore, and you are going to buy panty liners to put in your sissy panties.

Note that you are not to just sweep down the feminine hygiene aisle, and furtively knock a box of panty liners in your cart. That wouldn’t be any fun for me at all, sissies, and when in doubt, I refer you back to the rule about this always being about my fun. No, darlings you are going to stand in the aisle and carefully, word for word, read the description and product benefits of three different brands of panty liners. Aloud. No mumbling. At some point during your sissy consumer research, you are to tilt your head to the side, visually examine the products in front of you, and bemoan the fact that you don’t know which brand is best to absorb the mess that you make in your panties.

Then you are to call in and tell me about the experience. Bonus points will be awarded to anyone that surreptitiously takes a video of themselves doing this, and posts it online for my amusement. Double bonus points for anyone who calls me while they are doing it.

September 26, 2013
Sissy Chastity Phone Sex

It’s been my experience that aside from service sissies, most sissies are greedy gurls that cannot control themselves, and need to be locked into sissy chastity. Left to their own devices, they will rub their sissy nubbins raw and fill their panties with sissy goo.

They are simply incapable of self-restraint.

Which is where I come in.

Sissy Chastity is Not One Size Fits All

Just like bikini panties, sissy chastity is not one size fits all. What works for one will not work for another, and that’s why an approach that is uniquely tailored for you is best. Whatever plan fits your situation, your little sissy heart will be fluttering a rapid pityy-patter when ownership of your sissy clitty passes from you to me.

I Will Push Your Chastity Limits

Though I know you may find it hard to believe, over time, you will go from being someone that is obsessed with making your sissy stick spurt to someone that really, really wants to show their devotion to me. You’ll do that by remaining chaste. I understand that you are not now able to wrap your silly sissy mind around the concept, but eventually, you’ll find that you’d rather remain denied than experience orgasm. You’ll become addicted to the sensation of fullness in your ovaries But more importantly, you’ll want to please me.

You may initially think you can resist my siren song of seduction into chaste sissification, but I assure you, you will not. You also need to understand that chastity is not about cages and locks, though I immensely enjoy both of those things. It is about control, and you understanding that you no longer are in charge of a piece of your anatomy. Your free will is gone.

You are owned.

September 19, 2013
Feminization Assignment – Glory Hole Duty

The weekend is upon us, and that means it’s time to focus on your latest feminization assignment, namely reporting for glory hole duty. You may *think* that the weekends are for leisure, and you’d be partially correct. They are for my leisure. But you will be busy on your knees, sucking unknown cock.

Your Feminization Assignments Are for My Pleasure

I don’t give a flying fuck if you don’t want to do it. The sooner you wrap your ditzy sissy mind around the fact that my wishes are what matter, the better we’ll get along. No matter what you want, you will be behind that wall, waiting for an anonymous cock to poke through that hole. I’ll be on the phone, my voice singsonging into your ear, telling you that there is no backing out, that you are going to be a glory hole cock sucking bitch.

Your heart will beat loudly enough that you can feel it in your temples as you wait. You’ll be torn between being afraid that an erect fuckstick will point through at you, and being afraid that one won’t. Because you know that your mission is to seduce with your mouth, and be a knob polisher, so that I can enjoy my power over you. I love knowing that you are so devoted to me that you’ll follow through on all your feminization assignments, even the ones that you are afraid to do.

How Many Cocks Can You Suck?

The answer to that question is very simple…as many as you are told to suck. If I’m in a hurry, I may have you just give a couple of blowjobs while I listen. If I’m relaxing for the day, I may see if you are a good enough pupil to break the glory hole queen record. Whatever my mood, you’ll go along with it. Because deep in the pit of your belly, you know that you have longed for a woman that can take control of you, and that will force you to do things you’d never do on your own.

That woman is me.

So open up. Better get your jaws stretched out and flexible. Saturday could be a very long day for you. Ring me, and find out how many cocks I want you to suck.

September 13, 2013
Sissy Fall Fashion

Call us for a fashion consultation, crossdressers!

With Labor Day weekend upon us, it’s time to turn our thoughts to sissy fall fashion. Fall is a great time of year for sissies and crossdressers. It allows for extra layering to give the illusion of curves that nature didn’t bless you with, and is more forgiving than summer fashion. I’ve just come back from snagging a huge haul that I got on vacation, and here are some things you can pick up if you want to feminize yourself in my likeness.

Leggings and Tights – Two Sissy Fall Fashion Musts

Genetic girls are crazy for leggings and tights, and there is a reason for that. They are versatile and oh-so-comfortable! They come in every imaginable color and texture. Is your sissy brain addled by trying to figure out the difference between them? Just remember that tights are like a sister to pantyhose. They are thinner and more sheer than leggings. Never wear tights alone, or your otherwise great feminization will be uncovered by your sissy stick being on full display. Depending on the opacity of the fabric, leggings can be worn as pants. That said, I do advise that you wear a top, mini-dress, etc, that comes down long enough to cover your ass. Not everyone can really pull off looking fabulous in leggings and a short top. It gets more difficult when you have that unsightly sissy bulge in front.

Jewel Tones Are Our Friend

Forget pink. You can come back to it later. Step up your sissy diva fashion game by getting bold. Think emerald green, pumpkin orange, golden leaves, and a crisp blue autumn sky. Let Mother Nature, in her infinite wisdom, guide your palette selections.

Be a Pinup Queen – Sweater Time!

Every girl needs one really amazing sweater that clings in just the right places. Ideally, you’d know your body style, and would pick according to that. But if you don’t know your body style and you naturally have a smooth chest, go for a scoop or V neck. If waxing, etc doesn’t work in your life, then go for something with a higher neckline. If you want to *really* accentuate the bust-line, go for a turtleneck.

Once you have put together your sissy fall fashion ensemble, it’s time to call in and give me a cam show so that I can enjoy your feminized creativity.

August 30, 2013
Feminization Hormone Therapy

Sometimes girls will go deep enough into their journey that feminization hormone therapy is something that they begin to consider. Despite what you might fantasize about, in reality, there are precautions that you really need to take, and things that you need to consider. Though each situation is unique as the individual that is in it, there are some general things you need to know.

What is WPATH and What Role Does It Play In Feminization Hormone Therapy?

WPATH stands for World Professional Association for Transgender Health. It used to be named HBIGDA, after Harry Benjamin, who was one of the first doctors ever to work with transgendered patients. He was one of the doctors that worked with Christine Jorgensen, who became the early face for transformation.

WPATH is an international organization that has established Standards of Care. Those Standards are primarily devoted to sexual reassignment surgery, hormone therapy, and real life experience. They lay out concise guidelines for transitions. You may read through them and think that they are far too conservative. Though I realize that when you finally decide to take that step you may wish to dive in head first, feminization hormone therapy is not something to undertake without doing your research.

Finding a Doctor for Feminization Hormone Therapy

If you are twitching in your Pour La Victoire pumps, ready to head for the nearest clinic, stop. Most doctors will require that you first see a therapist that specializes in gender identity. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ll have to go through intensive traditional therapy. The intent is to make sure that you are comfortable with and aware of issues surrounding feminization hormone therapy. It also gives you an opportunity to address any other issue you may have, gender related or not.

Another important thing is having someone outside the therapeutic setting to talk things over with, and explore your feelings about. Establishing relationships with understanding, empathetic genetic girls like Ms Isabelle and myself can be very beneficial relationships to form during your transition. Though not doctors or traditional therapists, having us to talk to can be an invaluable source of comfort, knowledge, and just plain old girl talk fun!

August 23, 2013